Last day of 2014 !

Today is the last day of 2014 and might be the last day for many but does it really bother you or anyone else. People will continue to lead lives and years will keep on passing and changes will not cease to occur but has anything changed inside us, have we adapted for the good of others or just for ourselves. All of us should ask this question to ourselves, have we done something that has been for the good of others? 

 

I will keep on emphasizing upon this fact that we have been selfish and will remain selfish for the coming years until and unless I realize that we have actually changed. I know that it is not possible for me to change this world but if we start working together then we can surely do our bit.

May this coming year open the gates of opportunities and may every cloud have a silver lining.

Happy new year ! ! !

Unity !

The word 'unity' is very small as compared to 'strength' but unity is the main reason of the existence of strength, in other words unity defines strength. Unity does not only exist between a few people but it also exists between the mind and the soul in case you are going to do something alone. Unity has formed the foundation of many generations and has been the secret behind countries achieving freedom. One can not measure the strength of unity nor can it be defined, it can only be felt and can be experienced.

The best example of unity around us is a colony of honey bees, a single colony has got thousands of honey bees and most of the times they don't harm anyone until and unless they are disturbed. We are afraid of honey bees and it is only possible because of their unity. If the colony is disturbed, all the bees get ready to find the reason of the disturbance and even they finish the reason of the disturbance. Somethings can be learned even from honey bees.

Unity is something which is on the verge of extinction as far as human beings are concerned, this is the main reason behind the existence of evil work forces like the taliban and isis. Everything is interrelated and everything is not, you only have to find a connection .

 

Nothing is a joke when it comes to any kind of achievement !

People always try to measure your achievements, officially or unofficially and most often they try to lower down the degree of your achievements. Should we care or should we not? Should we answer back or should we not? How long can anyone tolerate? Well there are hell lot of things that can happen in the midst of tolerating something and responding to something. Many wise people will suggest not to respond to what others are telling and continue the work, on the other hand restless people will start the action as soon as possible.

I would suggest not to be completely dead rather absorb all the comments and the criticisms and avoid answering back. The absorbed materials will form the fuel and ignite with such vigour that you will surely reach the top of the ladder without much difficulty. 

This will also not stop people from doing the same thing, but this time you really will not care at all. The main reason for all the trouble is that, they have never seen or had the taste of either success or failure, you have to be strong enough to face the failure in order to be successful. People, only because they don't want to or they can't think out of the box makes them afraid to take that risk and life without risk is like a mp4 file which can be controlled with the help of any media player. I don't wish to control my life rather do I wish it to be controlled by anyone else. 

Just begin the process of not caring by walking on your own and at your own speed without caring about how fast the other person is walking or how far has he reached, your goal and other person's goal can never be the same; it might be identical still some differences will always exist.

The richer you are, the more unsafe you are !

People covet to be very rich, the hunger to become rich is unending and so is the process of becoming rich. People just forget one thing and that is they are slowly losing themselves in that process, they lose their freedom and a sense of fear is installed in their minds. This does not apply on the rich people but also on the so called powerful people, the ministers and other such officers.

Last night while I was having a walk, I saw a bunch of cars going at the full speed with red lights and sirens, what was that all about, then I found out that that is just a routine drive of the M.L.A. of the town. How can so much fuel be wasted for just one minister? Four cars filled with men just to provide security to the so called M.L.A., has the minister done anything for the good of the town which can be compared to the amount of security he is getting, I think not. Well many will say that since he has got the post, he is privileged to get such facilities, I would not consider this to be a facility rather it could be compared to some sort of arrest where you don't have the freedom to go alone. What is the use of such a power which doesn't give you a feeling of being powerful, rather makes you afraid of losing your life at anytime and anyplace.

People hate to called martyrs now, since ministers fear the fact that they can be assassinated at anytime if they are not having security, well if they were supposed to be assassinated then they would have been, even if any kind of security was there. If security of  A-Z kind could have stopped assassinations then the world renowned assassinations would have never been written in the books of history, those are reality not drama. 

All I am saying is stop investing so much for the security of useless ministers, let them do their job without the fear of death.

 

Where the mind is without fear, and the head is held high !

Only when your mind will be without fear your head will be held high, this world will always be ready to push you from heights which you will never expect. It is obvious to be afraid of anything or anyone but don't let that fear exploit you to that extent that you are no more capable of standing tall. Your fear will not only exploit you but your confidence, only to surpass the boundaries which you had created and then the fear will be so much mighty that it will be next to impossible to defeat it, keeping the head high will not even be an option.

A friend of mine had told me not to show a mirror to others' problems, rather try to find a way out, so here I am trying to give you a way out. The only way to be free is not to let parasites like fear breed inside you and break free from any kind of bindings. Typing the last sentence was easy but applying it practically is not that easy, one of the toughest nuts to crack.

 

Is happiness a dirt?

Happiness is a temporary abstract commodity which cannot be purchased until and unless it is chased. Happiness is like a temporary stain on your shirt which goes off after just a first wash, all happiness needs is a wash to be kicked out of life. It is ironical but true, you don’t want a stain on your favorite shirt but you want happiness in your life, you would wash your shirt to remove the stain but happiness goes out of your life without any effort, yet these are inter-related, rather I would call them to be oxymoron, “As dirty as happiness”.

Again I would recall the old theory, that is "Change is the only thing that is permanent", hence happiness can never last forever. At times you start hating happiness like a stain as you no longer trust the existence of happiness and you no longer covet to lead such a life which has something called happiness, as you are no more ignorant to the fact that all those are just hypothesis.

 

In the midst of a confusion ! ! !

When you are in the midst of a confusion, you  are literally fighting with yourself. Your thoughts get divided and you can't judge which one of you is right or wrong, your thoughts confuse you and you can't even trust your own thoughts. At that time all you need is a hand which will guide you to the right path and you will happily want to follow that hand without any queries as you are left with no more strength to fight yourself. If at the same time someone comes and adds a bit more to your confusion then you will want to take the hell out of that person.

Confusion is a parasite which resides inside you always and slowly kills you, it acts like a slow poison, you can not define confusion rather can it be categorized into classes.
 

Exams ahead ! ! !

"Tomorrow is my exam, but I am not afraid as a single piece of paper can't decide my future." I hope you people know who has said this meaningful line, if you don't then search google.

No exam is bigger than the exam of life, as leading life itself is an exam and we should be privileged that we have got the opportunity to appear for it. If just a piece of paper will make you nervous then what will you in the arena of real life.

 If you are afraid of failing then it is best that you don't exist, just do your bit to get the best you can and I am sure that you will, being afraid will push you towards the group of failures, it is only when you realize that you too can do it, you will reach success and have a taste of success.

DEDICATED TO ALL THE STUDENTS OF W.B.U.T. AND ALL OF THEM WHO ARE HAVING THEIR EXAMS . . .